Superficial dating Chatrandom with mature woman
Whether you are a man or woman, learn to be happy in your own skin. Write (like me), learn an instrument, dance, fight, climb a mountain – whatever.
Just be fulfilled by doing things that make you better.
As a gay black 27 year old feminine man that's single and looking for honest dating advice, I feel this sub is so superficial and so shit. The fuck I was thinking this is 2018 and were past that. Yeah I can conform myself to what I think society wants me to look like, get plastic surgery and become a whole new fucking person if I wanted to. I want to be the way god made me, and I hope there is a guy out there for me. Yet, I think most people who struggle with dating are actually struggling with their relationship with themselves. I can't really speak for the advice on this sub, but I know that "be yourself" is not going to work for everyone.
I've been lurking through several posts, and I just noticed a negative pattern it seems. They don't really like who they are, and have spent a lot of time in escapism rather than building themselves into what they want to be. I think a better one liner is "validate yourself", but that is confusing to just drop on someone.
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compelled to put all your “eggs in one basket”, in fear of getting hurt?
This is an “extreme” case – but seeing as I am part of the slightly younger dating pool, this seems to be a common thing among women in their early 20’s and younger…
you have to let go of your fears, and dive into the deep end.
This means that you may in fact get “hurt” in a failed relationship.
Even in cases where it’s not exactly as extreme as the situation above, there is that twinge of of untrustworthy-ness, and perhaps feeling “unsatisfactory” when it comes to choosing a partner who has a seemingly endless supply of men or women chasing after them.