Men dating female friends who is dec dating
For me it's the privacy (he calls it privacy, I call it secrecy).
I tell him I can give him privacy in any other aspect of life (more or less) but his relationship with other women is not an area I think it's appropriate. He says he doesn't see it as disrespectful because he sees those relationships as so far removed from me that they don't effect me in any way. Would you find your spouse's private relationship with single members of the opposite sex disrespectful? What do you think would happen if you had a friendship with another man, any man, single or otherwise?
And if you do think it's okay for men to have this kind of relationship, are you okay with it being private?
I ask because my husband habitually befriends single women.
My husband became very good friends with a colleague of his, a single woman.
They keep in touch even though she has since moved on to a new job.
So I used google desktop and found all the pornographic emails he and his lady friends had been sending to each other.
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We've been married for almost 13 years and much of the tenderness and affection has left our marriage. If your husband seems to be going out of his way to befriend single women, that's a red flag.
If you KNOW that your marriage is missing tenderness and affection, and he is getting texts he doesn't want you to see, that's a REALLY bad sign.
I've been exactly where you are and am now getting the divorce. Yeah, we've certainly got our issues right now, but I suppose I was digressing because the issue on my mind right now is these friendships.
It does not bother me in the slightest because as soon as it became clear that they were becoming social friends and not just co-workers, I met her and have gotten to know her.
While she was my husband's friend first, she's my friend too, and there is nothing secret about it.
Relationships, yes, but there should be no need to keep it so quiet.