Let him make his own decisions about how, when and how often he socializes, and don't pressure him into going out when he really doesn't want to.
At a party, he may prefer to sit quietly in the corner, rather than mingling, dancing or entertaining others.
Socializing can be exhausting for introverts, whereas quiet, alone time can revitalize them. If you love going out every night and meeting lots of people, but you're dating a loner, you will need to find some middle ground that both of you are happy with.Understand that your date may find social situations difficult.He may not want to attend certain events, and after a big party he may need to hibernate for a few days.Dating means putting yourself out there, meeting new people and putting effort into getting to know those people in the hope of making a solid connection.
If you’re the type of person who feels drained after being social and you need a lot of alone time to recharge, dating can be absolutely exhausting.
For as long as I can remember, it’s when I’m alone that I’m at my happiest.