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After analyzing all the data, the scientists came to the conclusion that there are certain key factors that predict whether couples “clicked.” Perhaps surprisingly, men and women usually said they clicked when their conversations were mostly about the women.Less shocking, women were more likely to say they connected with men who used appreciative language (“That’s awesome!”) and who interrupted them — but only as a way to show understanding and engagement (“Exactly”).And for those who think it’s a good idea to ask a bazillion questions about where their partner grew up and the name of his or her childhood pet, think again: Asking questions usually signalled a lack of connection, probably because women felt that they had to act curious in order to keep a boring conversation going.Essentially, a session of heterosexual speed dating involves a group of women sitting around in a circle and a group of men who rotate around them.Everyone gets a chance to meet (and flirt); and successful pairings are given contact info to try their luck in the “real world.”Speed dating is useful for obvious reasons, like sharing horror stories about inappropriate participants.At the end of the event participants submit to the organizers a list of who they would like to provide their contact information to.If there is a match, contact information is forwarded to both parties.
What leads to romantic attraction: similarity, reciprocity, security, or beauty? For example, one study found that speed-dating couples with similar speaking styles were more likely to report a mutual connection.
It is not known when speed dating was first carried out, but there were speed dating events in the London area in the mid-1970s.