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A note for all the single Junubin (South Sudanese), especially the ”wanna-be”, irresponsible-husbands. Her husband died, defending the sovereignty of our beloved South Sudan (God bless the beautiful Republic of South Sudan). If you ever find yourself referring to a woman whose husband died on a battlefield as a single mother, you should immediately pour Tabasco sauce into your eyes, because you deserve to weep all the tears I’m certain she has. Now, let’s get the definition VERY clear: A single mother is a woman who had a child outside of any established relationship, or a relationship so fragile the thickest retard in the world ought to have been able to see bringing a child on board was a [email protected]#KINGTERRIBLE IDEA.(I know it is a long article, but i hope you’ll find time to read it) In the last few months, been sitting down trying to say something about how our Junubin Sisters are viewing the new world of parenthood, especially my poor sisters in the west (you young women down here inclusive), BUT!!! Lumping her in with ”single mother” word, is an insult to his memory, to her and to her children. On the other hand, divorced mothers are also NOT single mothers, why, although a huge flashing PROCEED WITH CAUTION sign is definitely in order. this kind of Single mothers are bonafide idiots and here is why you should never even consider dating one: First, this is a woman who clearly doesn’t give a shit about her child’s well-being and future prospects.While it's a good idea to let her talk about herself a lot (most people enjoy talking about themselves and appreciate that someone else is interested in them), you'll need to talk about yourself as well.Volunteer information about yourself to echo the details she's sharing about her life, but only if she shows an interest.For example, if you ask her what her job is and she tells you, let her talk about herself as much as she wants and only mention what you do if she asks, or if it comes up as a part of what you're saying in response to her comments.Try to let her take up slightly more than half of the conversation and focus on areas of your life, opinions and interests that you have in common.Start with questions like where she's from and how long she's lived in the area and what she does for a living.You can move from here into questions about what she enjoys doing in her spare time and what some of her interests and aspirations might be.
Whatever you choose, talking about your setting is a non-threatening way to start getting used to one another's company.
Once you've laid down a strong foundation of common interests, you can move into expressing interest in pursuing her company further.
You can find an excuse to get together at a later date, such as a business-related meeting, or you can ask her directly to accompany you on a casual get-together.
Children of single mothers do poorly on every imaginable scale. Ben Carson), lol, and experience way more behavioral problems than children who grow up with married parents. (Tell your shitty-horny boyfriend), If you screw up and get pregnant, don’t screw up even more and bring an innocent child along with you!
they have more emotional problems, experience more stress, and are more likely to grow up poor, they have lower educational achievements (except the likes of Mr. Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers. The rest of YOUR FAMILY and/or relatives who have to LIVE with your [email protected]@ked up, emotionally scarred children will PAY you to have a freaking abortion.I don't have to do that very often, though, because I'm also very blunt when I don't want to give someone my number.